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I've been trying to do everything myself because I felt like I should be able to handle it. Today I finally accepted my mom's offer to come over and help. She held Sophia while I showered and napped. Game changer. Don't be like me - accept the help! 💚

We just moved Jack from crib to toddler bed and it's been... interesting. First few nights he kept getting out every 5 minutes. We stayed consistent with putting him back without engaging much. Night 5 and he's finally staying in bed! Patience is key.

My MIL kept showing up unannounced 'to help' but it stressed me out more. Finally told her we need at least a day's notice for visits. She was hurt at first but now respects it. It's okay to set boundaries, even with family who mean well!

I started seeing a therapist for postpartum anxiety and it's been transformative. I was so anxious I couldn't sleep even when Harper slept. Learning coping strategies has made me more present and patient. No shame in getting help. 💚

After months of tag-team feeding, both Oliver and Olivia slept for 6 hours straight last night! I actually woke up panicked because it was so quiet. Just wanted to share this win with all of you who understand the struggle. It gets better!

Took Ava to the grocery store and got comments from THREE strangers. 'She should be wearing socks.' 'Is she warm enough?' 'You're holding her wrong.' Ma'am, she's fine, I'm a nurse, please let me buy my yogurt in peace. 😅

Just started Lily on purées this week. I was not prepared for how much sweet potato would end up in her hair, on the walls, on ME. But her little face when she tasted banana for the first time? Worth every bit of cleanup. 😂

Lucas is going through a major 'mommy only' phase. He screams if dad tries to help with anything. My husband is so hurt by it. We keep reminding ourselves it's developmental and will pass, but it's hard on both of us. Anyone else dealing with this?

Ava had a fever that everyone said was 'just teething.' Something felt off to me so I took her in anyway. Turns out she had a UTI that needed antibiotics. I'm so glad I listened to my gut. If something feels wrong, get it checked. You know your baby best.