Join the conversation
Sign up to share your experiences, ask questions, and support other parents.
We couldn't afford a babysitter so we started doing 'date nights' at home after Noah goes to bed. Order takeout, put phones away, watch a movie together. It's not the same as going out but it's helped us stay connected. Little things matter!
Mason ยท 8 months ยท about 2 months ago
I do every single night waking because my husband 'has to work in the morning.' I work from home but I'm still WORKING. We've talked about it but nothing changes. How do you split night duties fairly? Am I being unreasonable to expect help?
Jack ยท 25 months ยท about 2 months ago
My MIL kept showing up unannounced 'to help' but it stressed me out more. Finally told her we need at least a day's notice for visits. She was hurt at first but now respects it. It's okay to set boundaries, even with family who mean well!
Lucas ยท 19 months ยท 2 months ago
Lucas is going through a major 'mommy only' phase. He screams if dad tries to help with anything. My husband is so hurt by it. We keep reminding ourselves it's developmental and will pass, but it's hard on both of us. Anyone else dealing with this?