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I have chronic back pain and need a carrier that's supportive. Harper is about 12 lbs now. Tried a cheap one and my back was screaming. Is the Ergobaby or Baby Bjorn worth the price? Open to other suggestions too!

Jack is 2 and the tantrums are INTENSE. Full body on the floor, screaming, inconsolable. Usually over tiny things like his banana breaking or me closing the fridge. I try to stay calm but sometimes I want to cry too. Is this normal? How do you handle it?

I do every single night waking because my husband 'has to work in the morning.' I work from home but I'm still WORKING. We've talked about it but nothing changes. How do you split night duties fairly? Am I being unreasonable to expect help?

Ava is 5 months and I've been combo feeding (breast + formula) since month 2 due to supply issues. She's gaining weight well but I keep getting comments about 'nipple confusion' and 'giving up too easily.' Is combo feeding really that bad? It's working for us but the guilt is real.

Ethan is 4 weeks old and will only sleep if someone is holding him. The moment we put him down, he wakes up crying. We've tried warming the bassinet, swaddling tight, white noise... nothing works. Any suggestions? We're running on fumes here.

Lily is 8 months and shows zero interest in crawling. She's happy to sit and play but won't get on all fours. Pediatrician says she's fine but I see other babies her age zooming around. Should I be concerned or doing more to encourage her?

Emma has had a diaper rash for 3 days now. I've been using diaper cream at every change and letting her have some diaper-free time. Still not improving. Should I be worried? What worked for your babies?

I'm 2 months in and still feel like I'm drowning. Everyone says 'it gets easier' but when? I love Emma more than anything but I miss feeling like myself. I miss sleeping. I miss having a conversation that isn't about diapers. Please tell me there's a light at the end of this tunnel.

Lucas used to eat EVERYTHING. Now at 18 months he only wants crackers, cheese, and bananas. I've tried hiding veggies, offering variety, not making a big deal of it... nothing works. Please tell me this phase ends eventually?

Ethan is a month old and I still feel like I'm babysitting someone else's kid sometimes. Like someone's going to show up and say 'okay thanks, we'll take it from here.' When did it click for you that you're actually a parent now?

Emma was sleeping pretty well, but this week she's been waking up every hour. Is this normal at 2 months? I'm so exhausted but trying to stay patient. Any advice or experiences to share?

Lucas says maybe 5 words clearly. He babbles a lot and understands everything we say, follows directions, points at things... but the actual words aren't coming. Pediatrician says to wait until 2 for evaluation. Anyone else's late talker turn out fine?

Now that the twins are getting bigger, I need a double stroller. Looking at the Uppababy Vista v2 with rumble seat vs the Baby Jogger City Select. Anyone have experience with either? Priorities are: easy to fold, fits through doorways, decent storage.

Ethan has his 2-month vaccines tomorrow and I'm nervous. What should I expect? How fussy do they usually get? Should I give Tylenol before or after? Any tips from parents who've been through it?

Harper has been taking bottles fine for weeks, but suddenly she screams whenever we try. She's 3 months and I need to go back to work soon. Has anyone dealt with a bottle strike? What worked?